I wish I'd read the reviews here before plunking down the 29.95 fee. As others have stated, you'll get lots of attention as a free member, but once you've been suckered in, the activity goes bone dry.
Totally *** site. don't waste your money!!
I joined thinking it might be a fun place, but it's not. Just to test the validity of the similar complaints I opened a second (free) account.
That account got emails and winks from the same woman I heard from when the first account was still a free membership and not once but twice. the catch is that you can't reply as a free member.
When I paid for the upgrade and sent a reply to that same woman, her correspondence dried up. It was all bogus.